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Elephant Robot

Spending time alone outside the house at valuable destinations is healthy ⚡

Spending time alone outside the house at valuable destinations is healthy ⚡

Identity - I hung out here for the longest time #Hmong #Miao #MIA

Identity - I hung out here for the longest time #Hmong #Miao #MIA

An hour of art therapy and learning to myself #MIA (at Minneapolis Institute Of Arts)

An hour of art therapy and learning to myself #MIA (at Minneapolis Institute Of Arts)

Sweet Ace-Ism-Neo @conchfishing customized a #DPO t-shirt for me as a gift! You’re talented and lovely! 💗 This is perfect! If you’re interested in ordering a shirt, let her know! Generous gal. Love you, Trinh! @deltaphiomega98 #sisterlove #ΔΦΩ

Sweet Ace-Ism-Neo @conchfishing customized a #DPO t-shirt for me as a gift! You’re talented and lovely! 💗 This is perfect! If you’re interested in ordering a shirt, let her know! Generous gal. Love you, Trinh! @deltaphiomega98 #sisterlove #ΔΦΩ

I don’t think there’s anyone who understands my hunger for it.

Honored to have Luis Fitch of @UNOBranding as our first guest speaker for our MNHS + CHAT Youth Group

Honored to have Luis Fitch of @UNOBranding as our first guest speaker for our MNHS + CHAT Youth Group

It makes me sad when you say you’re living to wait for the very second you die

Winner winner chicken dinner .. in advertising. #ad2sas is happening this Friday! #SASmosphere

Winner winner chicken dinner .. in advertising. #ad2sas is happening this Friday! #SASmosphere

They are so beautiful, genuine, and quirky. I’m in love.

I heard their rendition of “Gravity” from my parents’ room. I listened for a minute before running to see who was singing the song. It turned out to be Alex & Sierra on The X Factor.

Afterwards, I turned in all my votes for the duo. I went on YouTube to watch their audition and unexpectedly bawled. They’re so beautiful together .. I watched more of their performances and knew that they were going to win The X Factor.

I can’t wait until their album comes out — whenever that will be. They moved me with their performances so I can only imagine their album will be x1000000 better.

fizzyliftingdrank:

ay-dougie:

johnlock-17:

swampfires:

ifeeeeeelinfinite:

crownmalone:

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?” In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.Here’s the answer:Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someoneelse. This is when relationships breakdown.The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.Because (listen carefully to this)The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to knowWHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.Remember this always: the universe determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!

why doesn’t this have more notes

climb a mountain together 

This was something I really needed right now.

Jesus Christ

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

fizzyliftingdrank:

ay-dougie:

johnlock-17:

swampfires:

ifeeeeeelinfinite:

crownmalone:

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?


During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.

Here’s the answer:

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.

People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this)

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: the universe determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!

why doesn’t this have more notes

climb a mountain together 

This was something I really needed right now.

Jesus Christ

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

(Source: yayhaz, via 7deadlycins)

(Source: ajqil, via plain--simplicity)

Unexpected Phone Call

The moment I heard your voice on the other line, I broke down.

I changed my number hoping you would never call me. I heard the sadness in your voice, the sense of regret in losing me. I’m sorry, your friends were wrong about seeing you while I was in the same city. It was never my intention so why should they worry. I was hoping you would pretend like you never knew me and carry on with your life.

I’m still traumatized, which explains my nightmares, anxiety attacks, and hyperventilating. And I’ve worked up the courage to forgive you for myself and your mother.

I’ve let go. A long time ago. But I can never forget the feelings, words, and events on that specific day.

I’m terribly weak and incredibly strong.

elephantmaze:

Spent the lovely afternoon in bed writing thisIt’s how a black sheep feels when she pours conditional love for her parents and for a certain someone
— y.y Yolei Yang

elephantmaze:

Spent the lovely afternoon in bed writing this

It’s how a black sheep feels when she pours conditional love for her parents and for a certain someone

y.y Yolei Yang

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